TO LISTEN OR NOT TO LISTEN????....THAT IS THE QUESTION...

      For as long as I could remember the listening factor in relationships has always been a challenge, for both the male an female species.
However when a woman is having a conversation with her husband, boyfriend or even girlfriend...(hides face) he/she should allow the person to express themselves.
       One should be able to express themselves without without being judged  and treated differently because of their feelings and opinions. can Doing this enables her to feel validated. This listening method can be applied to both parties.

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Men Confidence Can Take You A Long Way...

Like most women, I prefer a confident man, not cocky. Some might say that being confident is the same as being cocky but its not. I think that a woman can tell the difference between being cocky and confident, being cocky comes from a place of vanity, arrogance where as confidence is knowing what you are, what you have and don't need self assurance.

A woman loves a man who can be comfortable in his own skin, this can make us feel safe and protected. Nothing is sexier!.

Be loyal don't give her any reason to doubt you.

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MEN...DON'T WANT TO BE NAGGED..."JUST DO IT!!"

Lately I have noticed men calling women "NAGS" Men its simple.. Just do as you say. 

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Men if you say that you are going to do something, word of advice? be like NIKE and "JUST DO IT" There is nothing worse than saying you're going to do a task and you don't do it.  If you are planning on doing a task or asked to do such, do it, no excuses, no frowns, do it with joy. Also never just agree to keep the peace, this will NEVER work. However if you are unable too, nicely say No, your significant other may be upset, but she will respect, understand your decision.

CHICKS WITH NIKS INTRODUCTION

 My blog Chicks with Niks is dedicated to helping men learn more about their significant other. This blog will help men discover more about their ladies and how their minds tend to work. I have realised that today's men are having trouble with want a woman will want from what a woman will need in a relationship. As the weeks go by I'm going to be giving tips, advice and solutions to everyday problems that may arise. Chicks with Niks will not only feature my voice, but others in society from all walks of life. Chicks with Niks blog was started for my Social Media class but has turned into is a blog that I will continue doing. Please check out my blog and continue reading for more fun and exciting things

How To Make Your Lady Feel Secure

“Insecure” vs being “Aware” 

According to Elite Man Magazine Cheyenne Bostock says.......

There is a difference between a woman being “insecure” vs being “aware”. When she’s aware, there’s evidence that confirms her suspicion(s) about your behavior. 

When she’s insecure, there may be only speculation that stems from her lack of stability or ability in herself.  Either way, it’s important to acknowledge the things that make your significant other
feel insecure by making conscious decisions that affect the relationship.

How to discover the Men from the Boys

Men when investing in your lady, there is no better way to say I LOVE YOU than to show her that you are serious by building her a home.