Conclusion of Chicks With Niks

Where should i begin??? Hmmm...the first few days of blogging I was like...what madness...this is rell work, although my thoughts didn't change that much from my original thought...it still ended up being therapeutic       I guess...putting my thoughts down and actually having people view my blog was interesting I must say...blogging is something that I can get into but...it will have to be my ONLY job...lol...or maybe a hobbie...it was quite time consuming yet still fun...

The collaborations I think were the best for me..meeting with friends doing blogs/vlogs and intertwining our separate views and making it into one turned out awesome...I won't discourage anyone that wants to do a blog...fb page or even instagram because I learnt alot from all the social media networks and I have seen upfront the benefits of using it...I'm not sure if i'll continue but if i do continue blogging you can tune in for more...

Can Dinner Dates Be A Good Date or A Disaster

I found that my last interviews did soo well, that I decided to take it back to COSTAATT and the students as always had so much to say and so willing...Foodography Tracey Thomas and I had a great time doing this so Please do enjoy :)

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Stating Your Purpose Upfront...

Men / Women... please, please, pleaseee!! state what is you purpose upfront, it makes no sense getting into a relationship and you have no intentions of staying with that individual or being even being committed to them. If your intention is to juss "hit and quit"..... Better you quit before your'e ahead, it is better to not have any bandaids to pull off. Be real, open and upfront about your feelings and what you want out of the relationship. Don't drag the person along and don't friend zone anyone intentionally or unintentionally, remember it is a two way street and their are real people with real feelings involved....

TOP 5 First Date Ideas

I spoke on Do's and Don'ts of first dates...However what about dating ideas...Well i came up with 5 ideas that I think would be great first dates for you guys and gyals trying to get back out there..

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1. Go to a dance class....

Trying something new can turn out to be a good idea for both parties...doing something like taking a dancing class can help you to loosen up and show your that you are both spontaneous and willing to do fun activities...even if it means making a complete fool of yourself on the dance floor.

2. Go to a movie or concert

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Yes I know, movies are always the go too..But I'm a big movie fan...and watching a movie can help build up conversations and take away that awkward feeling of not know what to say.

3. Take a cooking class

Taking a cooking class can let you show off your skills if you have any or learn a new one. This date idea can also be a conversation builder. Allowing a flow on various topics...and won't leave you feeling awkward and unsure as to what can be said.

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4. Meeting for Coffee

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A meeting for coffee in the morning or mid day can provide little risks, it is inexpensive and there are fewer distractions to make the date less like a disaster..Yes a coffee date can seem more friendly..however choosing an environment with a much more intimate setting will help out the situation. Also with a day time, it allows you to have a quick escape if the dates goes left!

5. Fun Park / Zoo

You may say "Whattt!! The Zoo, The Fun Park"..... "are we kids??" No you aren't! but it is an activity that both men and women can enjoy. We all have that inner kid in us, that just wants to come out and play. This type of date allows you to see a more adventurous side to them and create conversations for the drive home.

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Advice from inside Costaatt Walls....

Coming up with the collaboration idea was not that hard for me I knew what I wanted, I just had to execute it. So... Moving forward we being myself and LostInTheDream Kareem Mohammed, will ask individuals questions around campus for relationship advice. I asked a few of my fellow class mates to part take and they obliged.....This video ended up being better than I thought, and it brought great insights on how I viewed some of my classmates...It was hilarious and think that this would be quite informative to some...We all had different point of views and I thought that this was the best way to put it together and with all relationships being different I knew this would be the best way to inform people. Hope yall enjoy......

Do's and Don'ts For dating

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I will keep saying i'm not a relationship advice expert...but i do have experience which can go a looooonngggggg...way!! Experiences and circumstances makes us who we are...So with that said here is a little advice to you guys...or even gals..

• Never invite a girl over to your home on a first date....It's going to be an immediate no way Jose!! taking a woman home on a first date is very baddd idea....If you invite a woman to your house she's gonna think that she is just a booty call!

• Going to a restaurant can be a good and a bad... If you are going to a restaurant make it that 1 you aren't spending too much... cuzz you never know where the date will go, 2 forget fast food altogether...unless she's into that kinda stuff...then go for it!!

• NEVER by all means NEVER bring up your exes...unless the girl asks... no one wants to hear about old news...or be compared to your last ex that SCREWED you over!! and if the convo goes there speak briefly and move on make the date about her.

• FLOWERS are always a plus! Or something that you know she might like...this shows you have paid attention to stuff she likes and takes her feelings into consideration.

• Compliments... Now compliments can make a woman feel special..it wud make her see that you notice her...that all the time she spent getting ready for the date was not in vain...tell her about her dress..even her hair....women loves to feeel adored.

• Please dress the part! no woman...NONE!!!wants to see a man poorly dressed and one that looked like he took little to no time to get his look together...Like we discussed previously a confident man is a great man.....He knows his worth and it will show in his attire.

• Show interest in things she like listen to her go on and on about her ridiculous day.. or boring one which ever it may be... just listen and who knows a second date will hopefully be in your cards!

I'll  stop here... cuz i can go on and on!!! But this is jus a little advice that can take you at least to a second date.. So GOOD LUCK!!!

THIS ONE IS FOR THE LADIES...... HOW CAN YOU APPEAR UNATTRACTIVE???

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Ladies we cannot keep blaming the men we too play a role in how the fellas deals with us..But question what are some of the things we do to make us unattractive to men??
     1. Being too into ourself..some of us are so self absorbed that we can even see others thinking that we are better than every guys that comes up to us.

     2. Today our outer appearance and materialistic items mean more to some ladies than whats on the inside. A lot of times we tend to focus on the unimportant things such as "fleeky eyebrows" what does that have to do with anything. Men look at whats on the inside, not our eyebrows and how on fleek they are.

     3. You are dishonest i really don't think this needs any explanation....
no one wants to be around a "Negative Nancy" who constantly makes an issue, keeps putting things down or even look at situations from the negative light instead of positive.

4. Being rude to people is a not a very nice quality to have as young woman, who's tryna "get a man' be humble, listen, respect others opinions and boundaries.

5. being a social media junkie is not very appealing... I know it is very hard as Social Media is taking everything and everyone's mind by storm...however we need to have a balance of our realistic life and the social media one. All the snapping and IG posting will continue to grow but your relationship will not if you as sooo caught up in that life..